They don’t hurt anymore (that stopped after a few days), but they can get SO frustrating after the first month or so. It can effectively replace a disdainful and disrespectful attitude on his part with one of adoration and appreciation. Force him to wear his cage for a bit and then let him out and let him go a day without wearing it or perhaps two or three.

The first step, once you have a well-fitting and reasonably comfortable chastity device locked in place , is to have him go 30 days of continuous chastity; absolutely no removal of the chastity device and obviously, no orgasms. While some men, and maybe even some women beforehand, had possibly eroticized their forced chastity, the belts and devices were not made with that intent; obviously being made with the opposite in mind.The devices themselves are as diverse as the people who wear them; being made of metal, plastic, or silicone, being integrated with a Prince Albert genital piercing, and ranging from large bird cage looking things to tiny cramped devices that look more a protective cup.

Locking him up at the peak of arousal with keep his sexual energy pent up more and be great training for him wearing with this energy so he can get used to it.Being a broad fetish, this is not the case in BDSM Chastity where the man is bound and wholly unable to do anything besides squirm.